5 Red-Hot Sex Tips From Real Women

Perhaps the biggest secret - the open secret - is that men and women are very different, especially when it comes to what they find "hot" or a "turn on"...both in and out of the bedroom. When men think about doing something "hot" for a woman, it usually involves some form of maneuver to be executed between her legs. But, that's not where she wants you to be. Not yet anyway. There's a lot of work to be done, - elsewhere on her body, that can get her more ready than immediately poking and prodding between her legs. You may have gotten her naked. (If you haven't yet, perhaps one of our 'seduction secrets' reports may be of use to you.) She may even be able to see the desire and excitement in your eyes. And yet, that is not enough to get her to let go fully, so she can really enjoy herself the way she would like to.

But, not to worry. With the tips and secrets revealed below, straight from real women who are eager to "help you to help her," you will be able to give her amazing pleasure...and stand apart, from the rest of the men from her past. Let these women show you exactly where most men go wrong, and what they most often ignore...so that you can really get her "red hot" and ready to explode with ecstasy... Finger-Lickin' Good Stacy, 28, admits that her fingers (not yours) can get her incredibly wet. But, not in the way you're thinking... "Men always ignore a woman's fingers," she says. If she's lucky, a guy will stroke or caress her upper arms for a little bit, and then quickly move on. Yet, almost no one, except for an older gentleman she briefly dated, ever looked at her fingers...let alone kissed them. Just like Stacy, most women complain about how often their fingers get ignored. "Sometimes, when I would be driving and my ex-lover was sitting in the passenger's seat, he would take my hand and start to gently kiss of my fingers.